We made a conscious decision to put off some aspects of life to run the course God has outlined for us. We’re in a new season of life with lots of uncertainty. Selena and I have struggled with this one. 4 Things Every Husband Needs to Hear Daily 1: “I trust you” Here are four things I believe every husband needs to hear from his wife daily. If you’re a husband, I’m curious to hear if I missed something (please speak up in the comments).
If you’re a wife, I hope you read this and get a new idea of how to love your husband a little differently, a little better. What good is slaying the dragon and climbing the tower if there’s no princess inside? Men need their bride’s agreement, adoration, and affirmation. I want to fight for sexual purity and integrity, but not without my wife fighting with me. I want to lead my family boldly, but not without agreement from my bride.
We aim to please.I can only speak for myself, maybe others share my feelings: I want to conquer mountains, but not without Selena. Our ability to laugh together makes the difference. When things go wrong, it can either be hilarious, or devastating. And we promise-we’ll do the same for you. If we want to play out a fantasy or try a new position, we hope you’ll at least be open to trying. MORE: 9 Signs He's Only Interested in Sex It shows us that you’re committed to our sex life, and that you’re willing to take joint responsibility for our safety. Even better is if you occasionally pull it out before we have a chance to. But what if we run out? Or we forget it? If you can whip out a rubber like sexual Houdini, that’s hot. Unless we’re in a long-term relationship, you’re taking the Pill, and we’ve both been tested for STDs, then condoms are still part of the equation. Nothing keeps us in the moment like the sound of our own name.
Or at the very least, some encouraging moans to let us know when we’re on the right track. MORE: 11 Things That Make You Great in Bed Just be sure to wipe it down before you put the magazines back. Pre-work sex, sex without penetration, and sex on the living room coffee table all do the trick. So don’t ever be afraid to change things up. It’s impossible for a couple not to fall into some kind of rut, even if it’s a shallow one. Truth is, we love the slow build as much as we love the crescendo. We know you mostly wear it to turn us on, and we really, really appreciate it-even if we seem to barely notice as we rip it off and toss it on the floor.ĭon’t be fooled by guys you see in movies who are always horny and ready to screw like RIGHT NOW. Because no matter how much you seem to enjoy the heat, if you never light the match, we have to wonder if you don’t secretly prefer the cold. But it’s so much more rewarding when we know how eager you are. We’re happy to make the first move, and if you don’t, we will. Easy enough, right? Sure it is! To make the bedroom a sexual sanctuary, here are the things dudes desire most. We just want a sex life that’s a little spicy, a little sweet, and still occasionally surprising. But the truth is, most guys are a little more predictable in their bedroom proclivities.
Sure, those men exist, and if that’s your cup of kink, go for it. Rare is the man who demands acrobatic porno stunts and a closet filled with ball gags and leather whips.